At the beginning of last year I met A man name Justine  he had came to visit in my city and was staying with my pastor and his wife only for a month then went back home but when he came I met him and we fed the homeless together and became friends then towards the end of 2011 we began talking on the phone as friends and that led into A courtship of us bible studying and praying together every night long distance and we made A commitment to God to bible study every night, this man said that God showed him that I was his wife...

when then got engaged and I moved closer to were he lived and stayed with a family member who lived out that way but then we started to rush things and fell short and we were both unstable and had no real income but we were planning to get married....but at the last minute I called off the wedding because we needed to be more stable...

I moved back with my mom and it's been A month since we've been seperated....I need to know if this man is my husband and if we should return back to courtship then get married...I was prophesied twice that I was going to marry a pastor and this man is in FT ministry and ministers...we are both young adults...im not sure if God is saying yes he is my husband and eventually we will marry just keep courting and praying about our courtship and marriage or to just let it go...but I love him and I've never had any man bible study with me or pray with me for months and willing to wait until marriage..if he is not my husband then who is this pastor i will marry? what will his name be or how will I meet him?